I found meetup.com to be a good starting point for meeting like-minded people in big cities. If you live somewhere out in the countryside then of course it will be more difficult.
Remember that your thoughts create your reality, so rest firmly in the belief that the right people will come into your life at the right time. Don’t feel bad about not having them in your life yet. Trust that everything is happening as it is meant to.
Yes, last week I went through such a scanner at bangkok airport and it showed something on my head, I think next to one of my ears. I don’t wear earrings and there were no decorations in my hair or anything that could have explained it, very strange…
If there really were metal plates in your body you should be able to feel them though, can you feel anything unusual in your spine?